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Pretend Play and Theory of Mind: What the Research Actually Says

By Leon MoriguchiPublished May 13, 2026Updated May 18, 20265 min read日本語版あり
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Parents of children aged 2–5; those interested in early childhood education

TL;DR

  • ·Pretend play and Theory of Mind: the ability to attribute beliefs, desires, and intentions to oneself and others, understanding that others' mental states can differ from one's own are theoretically linked through a shared metarepresentational capacity, and studies show a significant correlation between fantasy engagement and false-belief performance in four-year-olds
  • ·The causal claim — that more pretend play directly produces greater Theory of Mind — is not well supported; both may reflect the same underlying cognitive maturation rather than one causing the other
  • ·Children develop Theory of Mind through multiple routes including conversation and sibling interaction; pretend play is one path among several, not a uniquely necessary one

Contents

  1. Lead
  2. The Cognitive Foundation of Pretend Play
  3. The Developmental Co-occurrence
  4. A Critical Look at "Pretend Play Develops Cognition"
  5. How Parents Can Engage
  6. Summary
  7. References

Lead

"She's feeding her stuffed animals." "He's giving injections to the dolls and playing doctor." From around age two, most children begin to engage in pretend play. To an adult, it is charming. To a developmental psychologist, the question of why a child can treat something unreal as real has been a central research problem for nearly four decades.

That pretend play is deeply connected to the development of Theory of Mind — the ability to understand that other people hold beliefs and desires different from one's own — has been shown by multiple studies. But how they are connected, and specifically whether pretend play causes Theory of Mind to develop or whether both are expressions of the same underlying cognitive capacity, remains actively debated. This article lays out the theory and evidence honestly, without smoothing over what is still uncertain.

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