Imaginary Companions: Neither a Warning Sign Nor a Mark of Genius

Audience
Parents and caregivers of children ages 2–6
Target length
~1,500 words
Status
Draft v1 (translated from Japanese v1)
Original
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Lead

"I think our child has an invisible friend..." More than a few parents say this with a slightly puzzled look. The companion has a name. The child insists on setting a place at the table. Sometimes the invisible friend is invoked as an explanation for behavior — "Momo is angry, that's why." Faced with all this, parents tend to worry in one of two directions: either something is wrong, or the child must be unusually gifted.

Neither reading fits. Imaginary companions are a common feature of early childhood, and research associates them with positive indicators of social and cognitive development. At the same time, those associations are modest — having an imaginary companion does not make a child exceptional. This article sets out what the research actually says, without inflation in either direction.