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A lot of parents have, at some point, thought: "My child is difficult to raise." Won't stop crying. Can't adapt to new places. Mood swings are unpredictable. Nothing seems to work.
These experiences are more likely to reflect the child's inborn temperament than any failure of parenting. The trouble is that "hard to raise" tends to slide toward "there is a hard-to-raise child" — a fixed attribute attached to the child. What temperament research has consistently found instead is that "hard to raise" is not a static property of the child but a dynamic phenomenon arising from the combination of child and environment.