Sibling Age Gap — What the Evidence Actually Says

Audience
Parents considering a second child, or parents of siblings
Target length
~1,500 words
Status
Draft v2 (translated from Japanese v1)
Original
../121_sibling_age_gap.md

Lead

"Two years apart is ideal." "Three years apart and they won't fight." "Irish twins are exhausting, but you get it all over with." The opinions on sibling spacing are plentiful — from your own parents, from the waiting room at the pediatrician, from every parenting book that dares to take a position.

With this much folklore on the table, it's easy to assume that a correct answer exists. What does the evidence actually say? Researchers in economics, developmental psychology, and perinatal medicine have each approached sibling spacing from a different angle, and the picture they produce together is considerably more complicated than "two years is best."