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There is no shortage of articles about how to handle toddler tantrums. Validate the feeling. Offer choices. Step away if you must. All of it is correct.
And yet — if you still finish the day thinking I failed today again, the missing piece may not be another technique. It may be a way to pull what you are seeing out of your own head.
This piece argues for something at a slight angle from the usual: getting through the tantrum years by writing them down.